Who's it for?

In the midst of all the planning have you ever stopped and thought to yourself, "Who am I planning this wedding for?" Is it you and your fiance, your parents, his parents, your guests..I am not saying there is a wrong or right answer, I'm only suggesting that before you get too caught up or have everything done but nothing you like, take a deep breath, sit back in a quiet corner with your fiance and seriously ask, who are we planning this for and what do we want. There is so much pressure put on you by vendors, parents, friends, fiances, strangers who think they have to give you advice, it's easy to get lost in everyone else's plans. What a special and precious time this is in your life, and no matter who's paying for it, it's worth taking a moment to seriously ponder your desire and vision for this day.